Fummmmminnnngggg grrrrrrrrr!!!!!!

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  1. alfsmummy11

    alfsmummy11 Silver Member

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    Ok im going to have to get this off my chest but who on earth do some people think they r talking to???!!!

    Last night at wi i was chatting to a friend outside when another member came out and was moaning about the queue n her gain. When i said i had gained she was like "what the hell r u doing here anyway as if you need it..your making the q longer" Grrrrr.

    Im a target member~ when i told her i was bigger than her this time last yr she went quiet......

    Bloody annoys me people like that :-((
     

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    If u have a lot or a little to lose or even just maintaining we r all running the same race and should stick together!

    I hate people like that too jealous and spitefull, there is just no need for it!
     
  4. alfsmummy11

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    Haha that made me giggle. I know some small minded people but really upset me felt like im not welcome at my own group xx
     
  5. alfsmummy11

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    It didn't take me long to get to target but i proper went for it really focused and stuff
    i gained 5lb when i dint go for 5 month. May not sound a lot but shows it creeps on so id rather keep going. Plus ive set a new target for summer xx
     
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    Everyone doing SW is doing it for themselves, idiots like her who think they have the right to decide whether or not someone should be going or not really annoy me!

    Looking FAB by the way - well done!!!
     
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    oh, good for you putting her in her place, and well done on being at target:D
     
  8. alfsmummy11

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    Thanks. Exactly it doesn't matter if ur a stone or 20 stone overweight its how you feel. I felt awful at 2 stone overweight. It May not be the biggest loss but has done wonders to my confidence...now with that comment i feel put off going again x
     
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    Don't be silly !! You do that and she has won, she has taken you out of he equation.

    You stick with it. You have done remarkably well and look so good.....

    I know what you mean about it creeping back on and the need to be vigilant at all times. I think maintenance is much harder than losing the weight in the first place. You need support just as much if not more when you are trying to keep at target.
     
  10. fayhamy

    fayhamy This time its for keeps!

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    Regardless of the weight we have to loose, whether it be a huge amount or not so huge its what relative to you that matters. self esteem and self confidence cannot be measured in the number of pounds lost, it is, imo, immeasurable. and as a mum it is even more important in order to set the best example we can to our kids.

    Do not let the thoughtless remarks of others deter you from being the best you can be, having read other posts of yours on here it is obvious that you are a caring and thoughtful person, unlike "her" in hthe queue. BTW, it is due to people like her that i stopped going to group but havent stopped sw!
     
  11. alfsmummy11

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    Oh sorry to hear u stopped...why did you do thaya?? i need to go to group as when i gain it gives me a good kick up the bum. She has just made me a tad paranoid now lol. Xx
     
  12. alfsmummy11

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    Thank you. I defo need support it is hard to maintain... Atm i wanna lose another 6lb to get to 2 stone loss... Now after what she said i feel guilty about wanting to lose that
    bugger x
     
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    And it's people like you who inspire the rest of us to a) get started in the first place and b) stick at it.

    You support us and the least you can expect is some support in return.
     
  14. alfsmummy11

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    What a lovely thing to say... Thankyou xxxxx good luck to you all xxxxx
     
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    What a tool!! Ignore her hun x
     
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    fayhamy This time its for keeps!

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    I stopped because I was getting SOTM etc al the the time and it was obvoiud that resentment was brewing. However to be fair, I was putting alot of pressure on myself too ie eating v little before wi etc so i felt that it was better for me ot wi at home without pressure and resentment. also my con wasnt v good, Imo!!!:sigh:
     
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    Who died and made her God anyway, u dnt need her permission to be there.

    You should be proud of your loss and that u hit your target not shunned because of it. I find it refreshing seeing people achieve what I am trying to do, it makes me believe it is possible! :)

    Weight is a very personal thing like you said u weren't happy and it knocked ur confidence so u did something about it good for you girl!:girlpower:
     
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    Alfsmummy- I just want to say you look fab and well done on your weight loss!! I love when people post before and after photos because it so helpful to inspire others! People can be so insensitive so i would just ignore this woman:jelous::jelous:- you know why you are there and the good it does you!!! ;)
    Maybe this time next year the same woman may have been inspired by you and be at the recieving end of somebody elses tongue cause she has all her weight gone!!
    Well done!!!
     
  19. alfsmummy11

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    Well i hope she is~ but she doesn't have the nasty side!!! i get funny looks all the time in the queue and now i know why....
     
  20. alfsmummy11

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    My con is fing useless...... Don't get me started all she cares about is money xxxxx
     
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    Just hilarious!!
     
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