sonkie
Gold Member
i totally agree with u both, em and RD. for me it is far more about prolonging my life and enjoying my kids fully. i feel like i have been half a mum whilst taking up double the space. i dont do half the things i want to do with them cos i simply get too tired or i feel too self aware wobbling about. same goes for time spent with hubby, of course but im not going into details...![]()
I second that Karen, I have missed out on so much fun with my family, like swimming ( I love swimming), going on fair rides, even keeping up with them when we are out instead of them having to keep waiting for me to catch them up.