oh rose!!!, i hadnt time to read the rest of the replies as im just rushing out but just wanted to say i use to work for a beautiful company who sell lovely clothes and u know what we always ytold women to go to m& s and get hold in pants!!! the ones that come up to ur boobs put em on first then bra over top, yes awkward when want a wee but u feel so so smooth under clothes its lovely and made a big diff to me...and no matter what size the women even skinny ones had bits that look better smoothed out xx hope this helps u have done so well be proud of urself dont hide xxxxx