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Have you ever put someone off joining Minimins?

Im wondering if its just me?

Loads of people now are commenting on my weight & are quite surprised Im not going to classes. Id started saying that I was doing it myself with the help of a weight loss forum, but then people started asking 'Oh which one' and commenting it sounded a great idea.

I got very evasive and non commital. I dont want my colleagues from work coming on here and reading my diary & seeing a lot of my posts! Is that really selfish? Should I be helping them regardless??

Dont get me wrong I actively encouraged my best pal to join & my closest friend has the URL of my diary and he reads it regularly. I just dont feel comfortable having my colleagues and acquantances coming on here and seeing me 'laid bare' so to speak.
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Resident geek
i dont think so at all.. i searchd my email address is google.. (cos im sad like that).. and it was linked to the DH and here.. so i got rid of my email on both.. lol.. i guess i write here.. and i dont need that part of my life reading my thoughts.. if you get me?

i dont think its bad at all.. they're two sections of your life.. and they're different.. you know..

x x


Back on the wagon!
S: 17st7lb C: 16st5lb G: 11st0lb BMI: 39.3 Loss: 1st2lb(6.53%)
Totally agree.....you need to be able to really express yourself on here...and having work colleagues viewing your intimate feeling around food and diet - isnt on! Feel the same as you guys......


Losing the baby fat
G: 12st0lb
I would be the same if asked, I'd just say 'forgot the name, sorry!'
i mean if they found you then chances are very high they want to lose weight too, so that is fair enough, but I think you could do without thinking that everypost you make is going to be spied on in effect.
i know this is public, but it's kind of secret at the same time I think.


Gold Member
S: 13st1lb C: 13st1lb G: 10st10lb BMI: 29.5 Loss: 0st0lb(0%)
I understand where you are coming from. My workmates and my boss know I go on meets with people from off the t'interweb but I value my privacy too much to let anyone I know I'm on here! You are all friends separate to my other friends!
I am new here and need this to be anonymous - i have tried so many times to diet i just dont want people judging me.
The beauty of the web is it can be so anonymous yet friendly and personal - if you get what i mean!! :)

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