Bessie, it's harder to see when you have more to lose. After all, look at it in terms of % of body loss. You're clearly losing really nicely and next time your husband says something like that, you should make sure how much it hurts and how discouraging it is. We're already really harsh with ourselves and we don't need other people to be as well, especially people we love and look up to for help and encouragement. I really think your husband will not have realised how hurtful it sounded to you
But you know that we on here are 100% cheering you on
You'll become a role model sooner than you think
I bet some newcomers are already looking up to you and your fantastic losses
You go Bessie.
Well ladies, I'm glad I'm not the only one who used to squeeze in my jeans. It took me ages as well to go down a size because I wasn't being honest with myself at the time. Now I have another dilemma: because I don't know how clothes are supposed to fit, I never know if the clothes I buy are too tight or too baggy.
And I have the added problem of having a "slim" waist and a big bum... So trousers are either too baggy at the waist or too tight around the bum... That's why I prefer A-line skirts and dresses
So on top I now wear 14 but on my bottom half, a size 16...
Better than the size 24 anyway, eh?
Oh Bessie, you do make me laugh
I overfeed my husband too but I think he'd complain if I told him about all the delicious things you cook your family!
I never make enough chocolate cakes according to him
I'd tell him to bake his own d*mn cake but I am actually flattered that he likes my cakes so much
(plus he wouldn't be able to bake anything, so it's safer if I do it
) Soon, it's your husband who'll end up on CWP
