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I'm so very weird

S: 17st2lb C: 12st0lb G: 10st0lb BMI: 27.1 Loss: 5st2lb(30%)
Okay, so probably since Friday, everybody at work has been commenting on how much weight I've lost and I'm completely sick of it.
I know most people would be jumping for joy and I probably should too but the only thing I can think about is 'If they've noticed how much I've lost they obviously noticed how heavy I was to begin with' and I hate the knowledge that if they're making judgments now they were without a doubt making them before.

I know I'm completely weird
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people dont ever say if you have put weight on because you just would not want to know, you have lost weight, well done. but other people are just pleased for you, just smile & say thanks, you should be really proud of yourself x


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S: 18st9lb C: 18st9lb G: 12st7lb BMI: 40.9 Loss: 0st0lb(0%)
I know exactly what you mean, I haven't go to that stage but I know I will feel exactly the same :(
Hiya TBH nicely honest ;) alot of people dont take notice of larger people untl they lose weight as its more to do with confidence,I knwo there are alot of big people who odle confidence but a high percent that hide their selfs behind a false personality and then as we find ourselves again when losing the weight we attract people as we are happier more chatty and confident ,I understand how you feel mine is because I have yoyoed for years and think OMG they are saying I look great in a min I 'may' regain and they will think shes blown it.

We all have our own reasons for not liking compliments and this is one thing that can be hard to learn to take.

Well done you have done great and just smile and say thanks dont forget theres evny and respect you have done so well ;) xxx

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