Thank u for all your kind comments, ubfortunatly it's to far gone for her to get better and the consultant wouldnt give my mum a straight answer of how long she has left but did say this will probably b our last Christmas with her just found a lovely nan necklace on the Argos website with a little guardian angel on it, I think I will go and buy her that tomorrow xx
Um, thats a difficult one because, not wanting to upset you, she might not make it to Christmas if she is that bad. I believe in angels and I think it would be nice to give it to her now so she knows they are looking after her.
its a tricky decision to make hun. when my daughter was 5 months old the docs were sure she wouldnt make it, i had already bought her christmas present, a baby bangle ad they were urging me to give it to her immediatly as they didnt expect her to make the next few weeks to christmas. i hung on and got lucky, she did in fact make it to christmas but im not sure how i would have felt if i was giving it to her after iykwim
very sorry for the awful news hun, hope your nans comfortable and that your all there together for support, my thoughts are with you all