Good morning!!!
Well, it's a new day, and a new start - but i was running late and have no breakfast stuff in work. So nipped into boots and picked up some sushi and a "rumblers" breakfast pot...but now have no idea on syns and can't seem to find it online. So have had the sushi and a banana, and a coffee, and not sure what to do about the rumbler!!
I think i use the syn calculator wrong, cos no matter what i put in, it always seems to come out massively high, yet others have already told me the value is low, so who knows!?!?!
LOL!! Future MIL!! Love it! Never thought of her that way - and i definitely don't want her thinking im a nuisance!!! I'm still beaming about my day yesterday, and have been ever so soppy watching wedding programmes (A series called Wedding House was filmed at Sundridge Park Manor House, just around the corner from me) so been getting teary eyed at that!!!!
It's funny how such simple things can alter your mood though. My OH family have never been all that approving or accepting. Or moreso, his mum. I'm sure i understand that she only wants the best for her son, as i do for my son. And i have a whole heap of negatives stacked in my corner (I'm older, i'm a single mum, i live at home, and over all of that: i'm not a Catholic) so it was never going to be easy, but i finally feel like i'm making some progress.
It's been nearly 2 years since my OH and i got together. Part of me feels like i've passed a test or something. Suddenly i'm included in "family" stuff, slowly but surely, and invited away for weekends etc. His dad surprised us with a weekend away in Norfolk and concert tickets to OHs favourite band, something i would *NEVER* have expected (But then his dad is fine with me, and has got to know me, which OHs mum hasn't)
I don't mean to rant but i'm just feeling good right now!! That i'm finall making progress and have proved that i'm in it for the long run, and that i'm madly in love with their son!! Finally they're getting to know me, and can see that we make each other more than happy!
The only 2 hurdles i have yet to overcome is:
getting OHs parents to meet my son (Still hasn't happened)
and meeting OH's gran (which is apparently not a great thing, as she's very set in her ways, and particular, and may cause great offense because she feels i'm not right for her grandson)
At the end of the day, my relationship is with him, not her, and not his parents, so whilst i'd like it to be as simple as possible, i really don't care what anyone else thinks!!!!
I'm going to marry this guy, and i'm going to be damn skinny when i do it!! Hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So yeah!!! Today's going to be a good day!! I'm determined!!
Will get some salad stuff in for lunchtimes, and make some superspeed soup for dinner!!! WOOOH!
Hope you're all having a good morning!
Love and hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx