Green Days No longer down in the dumps

Good afternoon all. Fri nite went very well Im pleased to report. We spoke for hours & hours about how we both felt towards each other. To cut a long story short - I felt that he wasn't supportive or had fallen out of love with me due to my size/eating habits etc & my husband felt frustrated that he had tried in the past to support me when on a 'diet' but then when I fell off the wagon & failed to restart he felt that I didn't value his support & took that to mean that I didn't really care about what he said or thought. I think the situation had just reached crisis point due to a lack of communication basically. He said he had noticed Id lost weight & appeared in a different frame of mind but was afraid to comment on this as he didn't know how I wld react. Def fault lies with both of us & I think we have recognised this & can more forward in a positive way. He also booked the w'end off so we had a day shopping in Glasgow where I had to buy new size 18 jeans as 3 weeks into sw I have no jeans that I can wear without looking ridiculous. We also went for lunch to Frankie & Bennys which I was really nervous about because since starting sw 3 wks again I have been 100% everyday & Im one of these people if I go off plan slightly I tend to go off plan big style! However after scanning the menu several times I opted for the tomato & basil soup from the lighter choices section which was marked as 150kcal. Anyone know how many syns that would have been? Once again a huge thanks to everyone for their support x
 
aw thats fab news hunca, well done both of you for being so honest with each other and congrats on your new size 18 jeans!!!

hope all continues to go well, looking forward to hearing more updates xx
 
Yay, good to hear things are looking up hunca! x :)
 
So glad to hear it went well it is so hard to get past things like this and lovely to hear you talked and are both ready to work on things good luck.

teresa xx
 
Glad to hear that Hunca. Hubby and I have been going through a bit of a rough patch recently so I know how you were feeling. We are trying to put it behind us too now so I'll hope that things carry on getting better for all of us now :) x
 
So pleased for you : ) communication Is the key. Its so easy to forget to actually talk to each other. Our busy lives mean we just talk about kids, whose putting the rubbish out, don't forget to pick up the dry-cleaning etc but we forget to actually TALK to our OH about how we are feeling. So we end up feeling misunderstood and taken for granted.Keep talking and put aside time for each other. Well done on weightloss, you really have cracked it! A true inspiration.
 
Derbynanny said:
Excellent and i bet you feel like a weight off your shoulders with having spoken to your hubby :)
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I most certainly do Derbynanny.
9lb loss in 3 weeks & my marriage heading in the right direction :)
 
Well done hunca. I've given up loads of times before but really feel that this site has made all the difference for me! It helps to keep me on the straight and narrow. Glad things are looking up. X
 
Wether you get support at home or not we will help you on here xxx love and motivation to you
 
Its certainly not been a day to be outdoors here in Scotland so Ive managed 30mins on wii fit plus, 27 mins on wii active & now going to do 20mins on Just Dance 2.
 
Well done, I need to pick up my exercise!
 
I just feel its a bit disjointed but I suppose over the week its a hell of a lot better than what I was doing before!!
 
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