Yeah more stickers, cool babes, well done to you.
Why don't you ring your consultant up and tell her you have just eaten a chip batch with butter and matchmakers because of how she made you feel, and see how she feels then. They must be made to realise the implication of what they say to people and I think this is just what you need to do to bring the point home. If no one ever makes them realise then things like this will just go on and on. Good luck my love, but please ring her.