We are 3 weeks apart
Husband wants Isabella, but I wasn't as keen so we said bella was the one (thought it wrong to straight name her Belinda)
Other names I liked were Emma, summer, Zoe and annabel but the names not set in stone and besides it might not even be a girl yet
Jake and James are completely different names, I like both
Keep it up Leanne your doing great the first couple of months are the hardest, after that it's a breeze and something that will come naturally to both of you. I hated the engorged boobs, were at the worst when I went out for a night with my friends and left baby with my parents whrn she was about 6 weeks old, they were so uncomfortable, huge and rock hard, so not looking forward to that again.
Your doing great though xx