lebody
Full Member
to cut a long story story short i have had the most horrendous 8 mths, finding out my husband had an affair, having our home repossessed as he hadn't paid the mortgage, having to move away from all i know, forced to leave college and the job i loved, struggling as a single parent with little boy embracing the terrible 2's and 13 year old daughter - say no more!! and now possible health issues and for some reason just not able to lose any weight despite trying slimming world, then calorie counting, eating healthily and excercising.. ive lost 4 in 6 weeks and im pretty sure most of that was water as i was on my period when joined slimming world
the one light at the end of the tunnel is a date in 3 mths with my first love from school - we got chatting on facebook (my new friend on lonely evenings) and have so much in common, he has been through a terrible time also and although neither of us was looking for anything we have both admitted we have strong feelings for each other - we have swapped photos and he has said im still beautiful (swoon) but hasn't seen me from the neck down, i know any man worth his salt wouldn't be bothered by a womans weight .. but i am and i just know i would feel 100% more attractive, more confident, more able to embark on another relationship if i could lose 30 odd lbs taking me from 15st 11 to 13.7 so here i am hoping with all my heart that slim and save will in some way help me to find love again, because if i cant lose the weight i think i will have to let it go, no way can i meet him looking and feeling the way i do
so fingers crossed for a happy ending !!!
the one light at the end of the tunnel is a date in 3 mths with my first love from school - we got chatting on facebook (my new friend on lonely evenings) and have so much in common, he has been through a terrible time also and although neither of us was looking for anything we have both admitted we have strong feelings for each other - we have swapped photos and he has said im still beautiful (swoon) but hasn't seen me from the neck down, i know any man worth his salt wouldn't be bothered by a womans weight .. but i am and i just know i would feel 100% more attractive, more confident, more able to embark on another relationship if i could lose 30 odd lbs taking me from 15st 11 to 13.7 so here i am hoping with all my heart that slim and save will in some way help me to find love again, because if i cant lose the weight i think i will have to let it go, no way can i meet him looking and feeling the way i do
so fingers crossed for a happy ending !!!