kati
Gold Member
I have a problem coming up on sunday. I have twin sons whose birthday was last tuesday. They have been on holiday with the school all week so haven't been here to celebrate with any family.
My mother has decided that we have to go out for lunch on sunday for their birthday, with it being for my sons (who I havent seen all week and will only have them half an hour tonight before they go to their dads till sunday morning) I can't get out of it. Help!!!
I tried getting out of it by saying I had planned to take them to the cinema but my mam decided she'll come with us and we can go after dinner (I call lunch dinner sorry). They don't like me doing this diet (my fault i suppose because I haven't told them exactly what it is they just think I'm not eating properly) and are always trying to find ways to make me eat so if I don't have anything I'm never going to hear the end of it. I don't want to have to explain about the diet because they will have a go at me for that all the time too. I work with them so can't get away from it at all.
I only just caved in and ate a few days ago and I really don't want to eat again and ruin it all, but I can't see a way out of it.
Anyone got any advice on how to cope with people trying to force you to eat? I've been in such a bad mood thinking about this, I really don't want to do it but I don't want to ruin the day for my sons
My mother has decided that we have to go out for lunch on sunday for their birthday, with it being for my sons (who I havent seen all week and will only have them half an hour tonight before they go to their dads till sunday morning) I can't get out of it. Help!!!
I tried getting out of it by saying I had planned to take them to the cinema but my mam decided she'll come with us and we can go after dinner (I call lunch dinner sorry). They don't like me doing this diet (my fault i suppose because I haven't told them exactly what it is they just think I'm not eating properly) and are always trying to find ways to make me eat so if I don't have anything I'm never going to hear the end of it. I don't want to have to explain about the diet because they will have a go at me for that all the time too. I work with them so can't get away from it at all.
I only just caved in and ate a few days ago and I really don't want to eat again and ruin it all, but I can't see a way out of it.
Anyone got any advice on how to cope with people trying to force you to eat? I've been in such a bad mood thinking about this, I really don't want to do it but I don't want to ruin the day for my sons