I am 16 stone 8lb (232 pounds). I had a baby 3 months ago and I am desperate to lose the weight. I always used to be around 12 stone (168 pound) but got down to 10 stone 7 (147 pounds) a few years ago then ballooned to this weight after I got married. I'm turning 30 in 12 weeks - how much do you think I could lose and will I be really flabby with excess skin?? Help