lilprincessvic
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I year ago I weighed just under 3 stone more than I do now and I had just joined sw after realising I had a problem!
debtin said:I could have written most of that myself nikki, just can't word it as good. The thing is I do like being on plan and how it makes me feel, I just hate knowing I have good weekend comin up and know I will feel guilty.
I am so glad I do sw, its just feels like am good, bad, good and so the merry go round continues.
I realise that this is better than being bad bad bad and if I eat good five or six days out the week then I can allow myself a guilt free day...this isn't really meant to happen tho is it? DAys off usually result in weeks off. I guess I need to learn to find a balance between having the naughty things, being good and doing excercise instead of getting wrapped up in it.
3lbs is good and glad I wrote this
Thanks nikki
lynica said:Deb you are at target 1/4lb is nothing!!!
I agree about the shred although I'm lighter I can feel my "fat" back appearing why don't we try start it again together. I can't commit to every day but what about saying 3 times a week we could do each level once a week ???? And then I'll look and feel great in my bikini in 8 weeks. That means we'll have done it 24 times if we sneak in 6 more over the 8 weeks then it will be complete what do you think ? ;-) x
MidnightPrincess said:I would love to join you guys in the shredding, if thats okay? I really need to sort myself out haha
Ok so just laying my cards on the table. I am 3lb lighter than I was this exact time last year. Good? Yes suppose so. Not the best is it esp watching what I eat, counting syns etc......am I the only one who clearly can't stick at being good? Can't manage 100% days?
What did you guys all weigh one year ago?
I know come my night out I will be off plan, I know come sat I will try but know if we go out for fathers day I will again be off plan. No point pretending.
What makes us be focused at certain times and not others? Sorry just thinking out Loud really but anyone any thoughts?
I am also only a couple lbs lighter than I was this time last year!!
I did sw for a while the first time and lost a decent amount of weight on it but once I got into roller derby I really didn't need to watch what I was eating so closely as the 9 hours of exercise a week plus I used to walk quite a bit too basically kept my weight fairly constant. I did still eat mostly sw friendly meals as that's what I was used to eating and a lot of what I eat is grains/pasta/veg etc being veggie anyway.
However I did get into the bad habit of having takeaway at least once a week and my snacks were less healthy too - often had big bags of Doritos or kettle chips to myself eek!
Rejoined sw after the ankle break - well a bit after the cast came off as literally none of my jeans fitted anymore as I had spent the whole time in jogging bottoms when I had the cast on and being stuck inside all day alone meant I really turned to comfort eating. Nice to fit into normal clothes again :-D
Sometimes I do find sticking to plan difficult and generally if a social situation comes up I will just have that day off plan I think enjoying life is far more important and if you can be good most of the time no point beating yourself up about the few times you enjoy yourself. Food or drink with friends and having a good time isn't necessarily a bad thing and I think most of us here have took the scenic route to weight loss!! X
Thanks really chuffed to be honestwe off to Ibiza in 8 weeks !! Got to be good though all inclusive are great for the purse but not my butt ha ha x
Thanks Kim really chuffed just got to keep on track and hope it stays offgoing Ibiza in 8 weeks !!!
Well I'm just the same normally I've only lost 3lb since January so very slow but dead chuffed to see 9.6 !!! Would love go America x
Thanks Deb x
Well done 2 jobs that's brilliant good luck with them , I'd try and stay on the 100% challenge when you can I'm finding that it's keeping me good when I can just don't put too much pressure on yourself be on track when you can x
Hi and welcome well done x
Spicy quorn lasagne sounds yummy is the recipe on here love lasagne xx
Deb bless youI think You put a lot of pressure on yourself. I'm on my phone so can't see your stats but I'm sure your in the 8's aren't you?? And to be lighter than last year is brill especially being so low , what is your target ?
From the photo you posted the other week you looked lovely and slim but I do understand how you feel our heads take longer to catch up.
I think really you are maintaining and doing it really well, why not have a break from trying to lose and just get used to being the weight you are now.
I decided that a while back and since then without the pressure I've lost 2lbs I also think that month I stopped wi every week helped me get out of the scale obsession.
Hope that helps you are doing great deb and always cheer my day up keep smiling huni xx
lynica said:Deb you are at target 1/4lb is nothing!!!
I agree about the shred although I'm lighter I can feel my "fat" back appearing why don't we try start it again together. I can't commit to every day but what about saying 3 times a week we could do each level once a week ???? And then I'll look and feel great in my bikini in 8 weeks. That means we'll have done it 24 times if we sneak in 6 more over the 8 weeks then it will be complete what do you think ? ;-) x
kim63 said:A year ago I was at target of 8st 7lbs after being on SW for 7 months. I decided to join after I had my first surgery & piled on the weight & at my heaviest I was 11st 6lbs eeek!!! When I started SW I was 11st 3lbs, so lost a total of 2st 10lbs. I maintained between 8.7 - 9st til last November when I had my 2nd surgery, couldn't even lift a kettle for 12 weeks & piled it on again to 10st 7lbs another big fat eeek!!!
Just imagine tho Deb, if you didn't follow the SW principles & have the support of this forum, you may eat the wrong things 5 times a week instead of the right things 5 days a week, which you're more or less doing now. As some of the other girls have said, you seem to be maintaining & maybe thats where your body wants to be & its just exercise that you need now. You need to stop putting so much pressure on yourself by feeling guilty if you have a night out or just want that extra glass of wine, that is life, we all have social occasions we attend & believe me none of us stay on plan when we have them!
If you want to maintain your weight or even lose a wee bit more, try to stop over thinking it all & allow yourself what you want, within reason & dont fall off the wagon the next day. I think if you give yourself permission to be like that, you may start to enjoy the 'healthy lifestyle' of SW. Stop thinking of it as a diet & more of a healthy way of life.xx
lilprincessvic said:I year ago I weighed just under 3 stone more than I do now and I had just joined sw after realising I had a problem!
icklerockchick said:Wow deb I hardly ever see stats as always on minimins on my phone. Did t realise you are just 1/4lb away from target that practically is target!!
Try to stop worrying and don't try to lose weight and it will no doubt come off. Have those burgers you want - you should be having extra syns to maintain anyway which will more than cover it.
You havnt gained any huge amount of weight so clearly you are doing something right do just relax and enjoy it. General healthy eating with the odd treat isn't doing your weight loss any harm it seems so stop worrying too much about syns and HEs and just do what you are already doing so well! X
MidnightPrincess said:I would love to join you guys in the shredding, if thats okay? I really need to sort myself out haha
Jo2982 said:I'm in.....I started the shred n managed 15 days but had to stop cos of injury. I did my knee in around day 5 n by day 15 I couldn't even do the jumping jacks it hurt that much. I'm gonna start again when I'm back from Spain next week. Leg might have healed by then
debtin said:So sorry, in my little rant earlier I forgot to say hi and welcome. Of course you can join but watch that injury...have great holiday!!
debtin said:Excellent!! You must be so proud. I have only ever been bigger during and after pregnancy. Always had issues of how I looked even when I was 8st. Never anything major but Just never really happy with flabby bits. It's only now I realise I need to tone to feel better....can't eat naughty snacks and expect to feel good without at least excercise. How can something simple take years to sink in? Silly me
How are the shakes?
lynica said:Deb you are at target 1/4lb is nothing!!!
I agree about the shred although I'm lighter I can feel my "fat" back appearing why don't we try start it again together. I can't commit to every day but what about saying 3 times a week we could do each level once a week ???? And then I'll look and feel great in my bikini in 8 weeks. That means we'll have done it 24 times if we sneak in 6 more over the 8 weeks then it will be complete what do you think ? ;-) x
MidnightPrincess said:I would love to join you guys in the shredding, if thats okay? I really need to sort myself out haha
Jo2982 said:I'm in.....I started the shred n managed 15 days but had to stop cos of injury. I did my knee in around day 5 n by day 15 I couldn't even do the jumping jacks it hurt that much. I'm gonna start again when I'm back from Spain next week. Leg might have healed by then
donna88 said:I'd love to join in with the shred, I love it and could do with starting again, but I'm scared to start it with me not sorting my stomach problem out. Got another scan tomorrow to check on that cyst, if that goes okay and I'm not aching all weekend (last time I had the scan it really hurt to sit up and then I was in pain on and off all weekend) and I don't gain on Tuesdays WI I think I'll start it again on Wednesday....or maybe even Tuesday night if I can get the motivation and have the time.
debtin said:Sounds like a great idea. Mentally I was starting come Monday due to being busy all weekend so that's a deal!!! Love the idea of setting minimum of three days and different levels...sometimes pressure of every day is too much but usually when am into it I can do five out of seven. Lookin forward to it but remember to hunt me down![]()