moomintrolljen
Will be thin god dammit!!
Aw man - I always end up getting the blame - its just like school 
Being over weight and ( dare I say it ) sex!
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ronniejacobs
Gold Member
oh i am so glad i finished my cuppa before reading this i was giggling so much oh wondered what i was reading
Fray
Full Member
Mine says the exact same thing. They're lovelies when we need it most, aren't they!
This has also got me thinking about "the does my bum look big in this?" questions we ask. I don't know why I ask them so often because I don't think anyone would actually turn around and say "Yes, it does actually".
moomintrolljen
Will be thin god dammit!!
Seriously though - At least we can all laugh about it!
I can't wait to get to my target and stroll around the house naked!
I can't wait to get to my target and stroll around the house naked!
Lovely_Laura
Moooooo
*ignores the smut :angel09:*
I think Tinkerbellsmum made some excellent points it's how you feel rather than how you look. I've never turned the lights off for sex, it's never really occured to me to. I've always been fairly lucky I guess that I feel quite sexy even if I look awful. We made some *ahem* home videos a while ago which was great fun, in my mind I looked nothing like I did when we watched them back! Imagine a zebra (no he isn't stripey) trying to mate with an elephant.
I'm actually more bothered having lost some weight about the way I look now, for some reason my big fat stomach didn't bother me too much but now it's a bit deflated it's driving me mad. It has got easier though. There have been some interesting positions needed in the past...
I also admit to being one of those people who wanders naked whenever I get a chance. As soon as I walk through the door I take clothes off, how many depends on whether than kids are at school. Nothing worse than clothes!
I think Tinkerbellsmum made some excellent points it's how you feel rather than how you look. I've never turned the lights off for sex, it's never really occured to me to. I've always been fairly lucky I guess that I feel quite sexy even if I look awful. We made some *ahem* home videos a while ago which was great fun, in my mind I looked nothing like I did when we watched them back! Imagine a zebra (no he isn't stripey) trying to mate with an elephant.
I'm actually more bothered having lost some weight about the way I look now, for some reason my big fat stomach didn't bother me too much but now it's a bit deflated it's driving me mad. It has got easier though. There have been some interesting positions needed in the past...
I also admit to being one of those people who wanders naked whenever I get a chance. As soon as I walk through the door I take clothes off, how many depends on whether than kids are at school.
Nothing worse than clothes!
moomintrolljen
Will be thin god dammit!!
Congrats on the smut avoidance mate - It wasnt me that started it honest!
Lovely_Laura
Moooooo
Hahaha no of course it wasn't! Yes I'm so proud of myself.
fillymum
synful soul
Now girls do not fight over who is to blame, you are as bad ( or as good ) as each other........ depending on your point of view.
mumtheshopper
Silver Member
My hubbie ince told me, shortly after I ahd a baby, that it wasn't the jeans that made my bum look big, but the size of my a**e that made my bum look big. He is now my ex!!!!
mumtheshopper
Silver Member
I couldn't imagine doing it with the lights off!! I know I'm out of luck when my OH switches the light off when he comes to bed, though he can sometimes be persuaded to switch it back on. Weird, I ahve no confidence in my body at all, but he makes me feel desired whatever.
tinkerbellsmum
Gold Member
I love that hun thats what love is and its great.
my husband makes me feel sexy and desire to. when I'm with him in bed I feel like i'm the sexiest woman he has ever seen its great.
Littleslimmingbee
Gold Member
Clearly i am the only one...
our sex life was much better when i was bigger. I had a very tough exterior before, constantly being loud and bubbely, centre of attention and constantly made myself feel sexy...
now, even though im so much happier with my body.. im also even more self critical...
lights off... when we do do it....:sigh:
our sex life was much better when i was bigger. I had a very tough exterior before, constantly being loud and bubbely, centre of attention and constantly made myself feel sexy...
now, even though im so much happier with my body.. im also even more self critical...
lights off... when we do do it....:sigh:
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