I have just read up on your last few months. I don't really know what to say, but Kira mentioning herself feeling bad complaining about having PF and otherwise being fine and it made me realise that it is so subjective - how we feel. How we talk to ourselves, and how we feel about our problems, illnesses or disabilities can almost be powerful enough to make a cold as bad as a broken leg with the right mental negativity from one and positivity regarding another. I am by no means trying to say that this isn't a horrible situation, but whilst there is always that person who is ''worse off'', it doesn't really help in my experience... what does help is the way you talk to yourself about the difficulties you face. I know you have so much positivity in you as you dished it out so generously and genuinely to me in the past, now its your turn to genuinely and generously give yourself the advice you would give us, and give it every day. When you need to vent or even moan, do it here if you wish, as you don't have to always act positive, we are here for that.
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