Am I allowed to join this group if I'm only going to be a bridesmaid and not a bride in 2014? My lovely sister-in-law to be had asked me to do the honours, and I'm thrilled but mortified all at the same time! I'm around 4-5 stones heavier than I'd like to be. Not expecting to lose that much by the wedding in April, but would love to be well on my way. Have been going to group since around June, and am currently the same weight as when I started! I've had holidays and fully booked weekends of overindulgence, but I need to stop messing about and get my bum into gear! Hoping that joining a group like this might give me the support I need.