SW is for life, not for Christmas... this is going to be in my life for many Christmases to come, so while I'm not going to be a total party pooper, I do think I need to find a way to have fun without going mad.
I'm planning on being good-
ish. Everything, but in moderation. If I
really want something, I will have it. But I that is all.
I won't have anything:
Because it is there
Because it is family tradition
Because I am bored/anxious/angry or whatever
Because I want to fit in
Because it is expected of me
Because it's Christmas and that's what you do
Because I can
So on the day I will be 'off' SW for the day and have a good old main course dinner with lots of the trimmings, but done as healthily as possible. Not a huge portion, but not depriving myself either. Probably no pud. Probably a fair bit of wine. Maybe one or two choccies but that is all.
Christmas eve I will tread as a normal day but maybe save some syns for wine. Boxing Day I'm going to rein myself back a lot more than Xmas day but if I want something badly I will have it.
Works dos, I am skipping the sit-down and turning up for drinks after. I guess it 'helps' that I have allergies I can blame this on

I'm only going to have a few, for every alcoholic drink I'm going to have a couple of soft drinks. I'm going to be the annoying virtuous one who rolls her eyes indulgently when everyone else makes total idiots of themselves. Could be boring (in which case I'll sneak off back home) but has the potential to be even more fun than actually being one of the drunk ones!!!!
Socialising, everyone knows I'm doing SW and thankfully there are no saboteurs in my circle.