o.h tells me that because he works he shouldnt have to pull his weight around the house. i do all the cleaning, washing, cooking myself all i ask is for him to wash up which he constantly palms off on the kids because he cant be bothered. oh and if he rembers, he takes out the bin bags (but never puts a new one in the bins afterwards) and then will pile things up on the counter rather than put a new bag in the bin. i have a nine month old while she is good shes a baby and i dont seem to be able to get as much done as i would like but on the other hand im sick of picking up after 3 other people who cant be bothered to put things away after them. because i stay home should i be expected to do everything?