I'm very sorry to hear that Vicky...
 
I was like Jet when I nursed my Mum through her last six months in 1997...  finding foods which she could/would eat preoccupied my time, and in between meals I comforted myself with food...
 
I often think that my Mum would have loved to know me as I am now, size wise, yet here am I moaning about a stone...
 
Yes, as Vicky says, dieting brought us together here, but we share far more than that...
 
(((group hug)))  <--- and I'm so not a huggy person!