Serena A
Can't think of a title
Okay, so right now, you probably think I'm being difficult
I suppose I really want everyone to be so very sure that they are looking in the right place.
Okay if you are, but you can waste an awful lot of time labelling yourself, finding out all the answers to that problem, just to find emotional eating wasn't the problem in the first place.
I've seen people go off to therapy, drag all their background problems up, spent months doing it...become extremely depressed about the whole thing, only to find that they weren't totally emotional eaters.
I did have a good think about this one, and found it difficult to reach a conclusion as to how one defines "emotion" in the context of overeating as it's such a personal interpretation. I don't think emotional eating has to necessarily stem from background problems therefore therapy would not always be appropriate.
I think it can sometimes be as much about unlearning our initial reactions/bad habits in the way that we respond to certain situations, rather than true emotion. Having said that I know that I eat emotionally too.
I suppose we just have to be careful that the tag of emotional eating does not become a "one size fits all" answer for all people/to all occasions when we overeat when not hungry. In my eyes the problem lies in successfully identifying what actually applies to us so that we can take the appropriate action, but not to keep on delving deeper than necessary just so that we have an answer, any answer, regardless of whether or not it's correct for us.
There is so much to learn on this journey...I sometimes feel like I have a treasure map with X marks the spot, and after much digging it turns out that the X is in the wrong place :sigh: