I did have it out with him and just turned it back on me. My problems are my own doing etc. I told him, he wouldnt entice anyone to visit. I am doing it out of duty now. I am the only one of us he treats like that. There are 8 of us. Two of us, me and another sister travel every other weekend to see him shop, cook etc. The others do their own thing.
God he sounds like a right little gem i understand the whole duty thing i looked after my father when he had a heart attack and then heart surgery , not because i wanted to but because i felt i had to, does he live very far away or could you perhaps cook the food and bring it with you so as to spend as little time there as possible ? You are doing fab to have lost as much as you have with that negativity and the next pound you lose shove 2 fingers up at him x x