Hes 40, older than my normal type of around 24, lol.  Never been married but he does have a 15 year old from a previous relationship.  Looks wise hes not my type either but we just totally clicked immediately.  Cant believe we manage to spend so much time talking and I dont think there is anything at all about me he doesnt now know, lol.  Ill shut up now before I take up an entire page talking about how wonderful he is lol.