Hi Laura, so sorry for some reason I didn't get a notification of your message, and I've obviously not been on here for a week so it seems lol, I wanna still come on here even though I'm not really on plan as the more I come on the more likely I am to go back on plan! Good luck to you doing exante, doing something like that is strict but you see results fast eh! Can you eat fruit/veg while doing the plan?
I'm still piling my plate with veg when I have it in, really need to buy more if I'm honest, normally have loads in freezer and it's run very low. I've bought plenty of lovely fruit and so that's been good, but it's the cake, biscuits and chocolate and even sweets which i'm not that keen on really lol, my work trousers are really really tight, I really need to be good, I will try to get back next month when hopefully have a bit more money. Then it'll be a race to 1st August, my 40th lol, I'm sure I could knock off a couple of stones by then!
Things going great with my man, now that i've set some things in my mind, I'm actually slowing down and enjoying it for what it is, he's lovely, great company, so caring ... just need to sort his finances out lol. Would love to be able to go out and do things together but I simply cannot afford to pay for both of us, I'd happily pay my way though, not expecting him to do that, but right now, if I wanna do anything as a couple, then I have to pay, so I have simply decided I just won't suggest anything. Even a simple shopping trip to pick up a few things lead to me buying him a couple things, he said he'd pay me back, but he never does! I'm certain in time, things will sort itself out and he'll end up paying and i'll get it back in other ways, but this isn't something I signed up for, I was better off alone and not having someone elses money issues to worry about too. It's only been a couple of months so I'll give it time, its easier to stay with him now as we work in the same office and make it work otherwise it would get awkward and I really like him anyway and love being with him, nothings ever perfect though is it lol. Other than all that, I'm actually really happy!!!! Life is good. Avoiding neighbours as much as possible, don't want to talk to them about this parking problem, if they do bump into me, I'd want to be polite, but I fear that we're now past that and it's going to be years of awkwardness. Oh well, should be used to this as mum had issues with her neighbours years ago lol Sometimes neighbours need you for things, so we'll see!
