oh girls, don't be down, we have so much to look forward too. I have to admit, i am losing weight because i want to be healthy and not frowned upon by midwives about being obese!! although, that is what i want to do and i am not saying its right. I think if someone wants a baby and they can conceive then who is anyone, medical profession or otherwise to say they are wrong. Do what makes you happy.
Big hugs but remember the reason we are all on this journey x