Caz
Repeat Offender
Man I'm confused!!
I went to see a friend for a few days last week. We'd been very friendly and a little flirty before hand, so I wasn't really sure how things were going to go, but I do like him. Problem is I got such mixed signals I don't really know whether he likes me or not, just wondering what your opinions are.
I should probably say here that we met online, and this weekend was the first time I'd actually met him. It really isn't something I'd normally do, at all, so I'm a bit surprised I have really. Anyway, it did mean that I was a bit nervous beforehand. He's on my facebook and stuff, so he's seen photos of me and knows what I look like, but part of me still thought that he probably didn't realise that I was fat, not just slightly chubby, and that he'd be disappointed.
Ok so I get there Saturday afternoon and we chill and hang out stuff. After dinner we're chilling in his room watching a movie lying on his bed. He was slowly moving closer towards me, and his hand edged closer til it was resting on my knee, then on my leg. And he was kind of stroking my arm as it rested across him.
He had to then go to work, when he got back in the early hours of the morning he got into bed and cuddled up behind me.
So all of that suggests that he likes me yeah?
Well, then Sunday after waking up, things weren't then like that. We'd lay on the bed watching a movie or whatever, and he'd be next to me, his leg against me or something, but not being so touchy feely anymore. That night there wasn't really cuddling in bed, but then he started going to sleep before me as he'd worked the night before and hadn't had much sleep.
Then Monday, we watched some stuff in his room again, but he stayed sat in his desk chair. Though he'd been at the computer checking email and stuff, so might have just stayed there rather than chosen to specifically not get on the bed. Do I take that as a sign that he doesn't like me? I just don't know! See how the signs got less and less clear as the weekend went on. I just don't know what to think anymore.
But then when I was checking train times to go home he told me to look at prices for in a couple of weeks to see if it's cheap to book in advance. He's got time off from work in a couple of weeks, and so said about coming to see me. And then when we were at the train station before my train arrived he said about coming to see me.
In texts since he's said stuff about that we'll have to hang out again, and a few times said that he was glad that I came.
And he asked about why I'd been a bit nervous before and I said that he might not have liked me, his family might not of liked me, to which he responded 'well you are very cool, so all good in the hood'.
He'd bought me flowers for when I got there, which I forgot. And he text me telling me I forgot them but said that he'll get me some more next time.
So can you guys see how it's really confusing?! I just don't know how to read it all or whether he likes me. But I can't ask him, I really can't!
I went to see a friend for a few days last week. We'd been very friendly and a little flirty before hand, so I wasn't really sure how things were going to go, but I do like him. Problem is I got such mixed signals I don't really know whether he likes me or not, just wondering what your opinions are.
I should probably say here that we met online, and this weekend was the first time I'd actually met him. It really isn't something I'd normally do, at all, so I'm a bit surprised I have really. Anyway, it did mean that I was a bit nervous beforehand. He's on my facebook and stuff, so he's seen photos of me and knows what I look like, but part of me still thought that he probably didn't realise that I was fat, not just slightly chubby, and that he'd be disappointed.
Ok so I get there Saturday afternoon and we chill and hang out stuff. After dinner we're chilling in his room watching a movie lying on his bed. He was slowly moving closer towards me, and his hand edged closer til it was resting on my knee, then on my leg. And he was kind of stroking my arm as it rested across him.
He had to then go to work, when he got back in the early hours of the morning he got into bed and cuddled up behind me.
So all of that suggests that he likes me yeah?
Well, then Sunday after waking up, things weren't then like that. We'd lay on the bed watching a movie or whatever, and he'd be next to me, his leg against me or something, but not being so touchy feely anymore. That night there wasn't really cuddling in bed, but then he started going to sleep before me as he'd worked the night before and hadn't had much sleep.
Then Monday, we watched some stuff in his room again, but he stayed sat in his desk chair. Though he'd been at the computer checking email and stuff, so might have just stayed there rather than chosen to specifically not get on the bed. Do I take that as a sign that he doesn't like me? I just don't know! See how the signs got less and less clear as the weekend went on. I just don't know what to think anymore.
But then when I was checking train times to go home he told me to look at prices for in a couple of weeks to see if it's cheap to book in advance. He's got time off from work in a couple of weeks, and so said about coming to see me. And then when we were at the train station before my train arrived he said about coming to see me.
In texts since he's said stuff about that we'll have to hang out again, and a few times said that he was glad that I came.
And he asked about why I'd been a bit nervous before and I said that he might not have liked me, his family might not of liked me, to which he responded 'well you are very cool, so all good in the hood'.
He'd bought me flowers for when I got there, which I forgot. And he text me telling me I forgot them but said that he'll get me some more next time.
So can you guys see how it's really confusing?! I just don't know how to read it all or whether he likes me. But I can't ask him, I really can't!