Littleslimmingbee
Gold Member
I feel like I just seem to want to complain about people at the mo but since starting SW I've met some really nasty people, read comments from others on here who have encountered horrible degrading comments from others and even had comments that have upset me said to me.
Why do some people think they have the right to put us down like this? So what if we're not a bloody size 0 (wouldn't want to be either) we're still human and have feelings.
I know we're stronger than those making these horrible comments as we're doing something for ourselves to help but they can't can they? But why oh why do they feel the need to put us down when we're all doing so well?
Last week one of the members of my class told the Consultant she was deluded as our leader is loosing weight whilst doing the job as no one else wanted to do the job. The consultant has a goal in mind that reminds her of a happy time in her life and the nasty member said "You're deluded, you've had 2 kids and theres no way you're going to get back to pre child weight" I thought this member had hit goal but found out she hasn't but has been lying to the group. Turns out the consultants goal is lower than hers so I'm thinking she's jealous:sigh:
Sorry rant over now for the good bit. Any negative comments will only make us stronger in the end and make us more determined to get to our goals. We can do it, we will do it and I can't wait to get to goal to prove to all those negative people that I can change my problem, they can't.
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firstly, my god. Its a good job i'm not that consultant. I don't think i would have controlled myself, i'd have been climbing over that table and smacking her, .. ' how do you feel now, deluded!!!??'
Eurgh. Some people are so nasty, i just don't understand this! Luckily iv never encounterd nasty people, iv had a few comments from doctors here or there, but iv used it as a positive step forward for me, i think had i been faced with someone like that i would have been so upset. You'v deffinatly hit the nail on the head there though, any one who feels they ahve to lie in a group meeting is deluded and has thier own issues, and is jelous.
My consultant is on plan atm after gaininfg a bit of weight recently and i commend her for being so honest.
ooo im mad. can't get over some of the things im hearing on this forum this afternoon.
Stay strong ladies. xxxx