Pregnancy and Baby Advice Thread: From Conception to Birth, and Beyond!

Well midwife was over an hour late.... She couldn't do a sweep. Cervix too far back so doesn't look like baby is coming any time soon. Back next tues and if baby not here by fri 31st then will be induced. Booooo trying not to feel disappointed, yet I am :(
oh no! not surprised you're disappointed! As if she was late too. My midwife in Norwich was like that and didnt even apologize!

Hope baby/your body gets a move on and ready for this baby! Like Kim mentioned, maybe try some sex? they do say it can bring on labour. x
 
Aw bless you hun x hopefully not long and baby will be here. He/she is obviously very comfortable - you've done such a great job. I can understand how frustrating it must feel - 40 weeks is a LOOONG time, and then seeing your due date come and go with not a lot of progress etc - I know I'd be a mess probably! But baby WILL be here within the next 2 weeks, so try and hang onto that if you can - hopefully not as long as 2 weeks over either. :) There's all sorts you can try - even if they don't work straight away - it will make you feel as though you're doing something to help if you know what I mean?? Might make you feel better :) The girls have already mentioned s-e-x, then there's pineapple, bouncing on a birth ball, nipple tweaking, raspberry leaf tea, Evening primrose oil (probably best to insert those at your stage), curry, walks (if you're feeling up to it).

Hope you're ok hun, big hugs xxx
 
Oh no can't believe your mw was an hour late! i hope she apologised!! Sorry they couldn't do the sweep hun :( your body is obviously wanting to keep that little bundle tucked up for a little while longer. Fingers crossed that although it wasn't favourable today your body might change it's mind soon enough. I can completely understand feeling disappointed...you get this far and then you have to wait longer...it's just not fair. Fingers crossed your body gets the message soon enough! Have you tried bouncing on a ball? walking up and down stairs etc? all meant to make baby press against cervix and help tell your body it's time. You could always try s-e-x if you can face it lol!!!
Awwww no :-( how annoying!! I was 41 weeks before they even offered a sweep!! Even then I was induced the day after. I know the feeling of getting so far and just wanting it to be over now!! Big hugs xx
oh no! not surprised you're disappointed! As if she was late too. My midwife in Norwich was like that and didnt even apologize! Hope baby/your body gets a move on and ready for this baby! Like Kim mentioned, maybe try some sex? they do say it can bring on labour. x
Aw bless you hun x hopefully not long and baby will be here. He/she is obviously very comfortable - you've done such a great job. I can understand how frustrating it must feel - 40 weeks is a LOOONG time, and then seeing your due date come and go with not a lot of progress etc - I know I'd be a mess probably! But baby WILL be here within the next 2 weeks, so try and hang onto that if you can - hopefully not as long as 2 weeks over either. :) There's all sorts you can try - even if they don't work straight away - it will make you feel as though you're doing something to help if you know what I mean?? Might make you feel better :) The girls have already mentioned s-e-x, then there's pineapple, bouncing on a birth ball, nipple tweaking, raspberry leaf tea, Evening primrose oil (probably best to insert those at your stage), curry, walks (if you're feeling up to it). Hope you're ok hun, big hugs xxx

Thanks ladies. You're the best.

I've already been having 1/2 to a whole pineapple a day including the core, bouncing on my ball lots, walking, taking RLT tablets. I will try curry again but I'm not good with spice and it was triggering off my heartburn. Sex is not happening- freaks bf out that there is a baby so close to being born.... I just need to relax, keep bouncing and walking and then baby will come in it's own time.

Problem is with the dates. Even though my EDD never changed after scans, we always thought yesterday was unlikely to be due date because my periods weren't on a 28 day cycle (only had two before getting pregnant) but the EDD was based on that. So I suppose I shouldn't have focused on yesterday being due date.

I'm ok. People keep texting me to ask whether any news which us really kind but just hope that doesn't continue all week long because it's a reminder each time that I've still not had the baby. Maybe that sounds rude.

Anyway just been for two 20min walks. Will prep dinner when get in then lots of bouncing. I'll be a mummy soon enough :)
 
Ah Hun, I feel your pain! But there is hope. I was 41 weeks when I had a sweep, they couldn't reach, too far back etc and then I went into labour 2 days later so just cos it was too far back today doesn't mean it won't be completely different tomorrow!
And as the others have said, in 2 weeks time you will def be a mummy.
Try not to stress. Enjoy the time you have left and sleeeeeep as much as possible xxx
 
Ah Hun, I feel your pain! But there is hope. I was 41 weeks when I had a sweep, they couldn't reach, too far back etc and then I went into labour 2 days later so just cos it was too far back today doesn't mean it won't be completely different tomorrow! And as the others have said, in 2 weeks time you will def be a mummy. Try not to stress. Enjoy the time you have left and sleeeeeep as much as possible xxx

Thanks Hun. That's encouraging. Im going to bounce on my ball lots, keep walking, eat my pineapple and maybe curry... And just hope for the best. Will have a relaxing bath later and listen to calming music. Am feeling much better now than earlier. Wanted to cry when I came out of the dr surgery but think it was just me being silly. Xx
 
Well midwife was over an hour late.... She couldn't do a sweep. Cervix too far back so doesn't look like baby is coming any time soon. Back next tues and if baby not here by fri 31st then will be induced. Booooo trying not to feel disappointed, yet I am :(

Aw no wonder you're disappointed but you sound better now :) I've got no patience whatsoever so I'd have been exactly the same. I surprised myself in hospital with patience, I honestly don't know how I did it. But your baby will be here in less than two weeks. Plus, like others have said, your cervix can change. My sister had a sweep and they couldn't do it. She had one a few days later and was getting pains within an hour, I think she said. So it's possible that them just examining you could have made a slight difference xx
 
pjallen sorry they couldn't do the sweep, but just remember your cervix can change from one hour to the next. Try and relax and do something nice for yourself. I know its hard when you are uncomfortable and fed up. Plan something exciting for the next few days and sods law baby will come along lol. xx
 
No it's hormones! Not you being silly. All will be well xx
Aw no wonder you're disappointed but you sound better now :) I've got no patience whatsoever so I'd have been exactly the same. I surprised myself in hospital with patience, I honestly don't know how I did it. But your baby will be here in less than two weeks. Plus, like others have said, your cervix can change. My sister had a sweep and they couldn't do it. She had one a few days later and was getting pains within an hour, I think she said. So it's possible that them just examining you could have made a slight difference xx
pjallen sorry they couldn't do the sweep, but just remember your cervix can change from one hour to the next. Try and relax and do something nice for yourself. I know its hard when you are uncomfortable and fed up. Plan something exciting for the next few days and sods law baby will come along lol. xx

Thanks girls. You've really cheered me up and made me feel positive again. I went for a walk, saw my parents for a cuppa, walked home then made dinner. Bounced on my ball for a bit and just had a nice soak in the bath. Feeling quite tired actually. Have planned to go to my parents for lunch on Thursday, and seeing NCT antenatal girls on Friday. Hoping cuddles with babies will make mine jealous and encourage it to enter the world hehe.
Let's hope my cervix gets moving. Never before have I been so bothered about my cervix hehe.

Thanks again for all your kind words and encouragement

Penny xxx
 
This was posted on my Irish site so thought I'd share.. I know myself and Jess are planning on using RLT and EPO so its interesting to us, and thought it might be to anyone else who has thought about/is planning to use them....

RLT - Raspberry Leaf Tea, also called Red Raspberry Leaf Tea
Q: What is RLT?
A: RLT is an herbal supplement that comes in dried form, an can be consumed orally by either making a tea and drinking it, or injested in caplet form. It is available in most holistic and healthfood stores.

Q: Are Raspberry Tea and Raspberry Leaf Tea the same thing?
A: No. Raspberry tea is made from the berries. Raspberry leaf tea is made from the leaves. They do not have the same properties.

Q: What does RLT do?
A: Raspberry leaf tea contains the alkaloid 'fragine' which is said to strengthen and tone the muscles of the uterus, helping them to contract more efficiently during labour. Research has found that taking raspberry leaf during the weeks prior to delivery helps to shorten the second stage of labour by making contractions more effective. Some studies have also found that it reduces the need for an assisted delivery (i.e. an emergency cesarean or use of forceps or ventouse).

Q: Does RLT induce labour?
A: No. Unfortunately this is a misconception; raspberry leaf tea doesn't actually help to bring on labour at all.

Q: When should I start taking RLT?
A: Although some individuals take RLT throughout their pregnancy in lower doses, it is advisable to wait until the 32nd week of pregnancy before trying raspberry leaf tea as there is a concern that consumption before this time in the more fragile, earlier stages of pregnancy could lead to problems. Once you have reached the 32nd week of your pregnancy you could begin with one cup of raspberry leaf tea a day and gradually increase up to 4 cups or tables a day (although this may vary in accordance with the strength of the blend and the manufacturers instructions).

Q: Does RLT have any benefits post-birth?
A: After the birth is also said to help the uterus contract back down to size, reduce after birth bleeding and help initiate the let down of breastmilk.

Q: Is there anyone who should not take RLT?
A: The fact is that raspberry leaf tea is not right for everyone. Don't take it if:
•You've already had a baby and your labour was very short, three or fewer hours from start to finish.
•You're scheduled to have a planned caesarean for a medical reason.
•You've had a caesarean before.
•You've had a premature labour before.
•You've had vaginal bleeding in the second half of pregnancy.
It would also be wise not to drink raspberry leaf if you:
•Have a family or personal history of breast or ovarian cancer, endometriosis or fibroids.
•Have any complications or health problems in your pregnancy.
•Have high blood pressure.
•Are expecting twins.

EPO - Evening Primrose Oil
Q: What is EPO?
A: Native to North America, the Evening Primrose is so named because its yellow flowers bloom in the evening. This plant's oil is extracted from the seeds and placed in capsules.

Q: What does EPO do?
A: Evening primrose oil helps to soften the cervix by providing prostaglandins and the components the body needs to make prostaglandins. This can help to ripen a cervix to help encourage labor or to speed labor.

Q: Does EPO induce labour?
A: While some lay midwives will argue that it does, which is the reason it is not recommended until 36 weeks or "full term", almost all sources with experience agree that it does nothing that the body was not ready to do on its own.

Q: How do you take EPO?
A: It can be taken orally as soon as 34 weeks, and can be applied directly to the cervix at full term (36 weeks). I have not found any sources that indicate that EPO can start being used for perineal massage earlier (or later) than their recommendations for using it vaginally. The general recommendation is two 500mg capsules per day until week 38, at which time you increase to 3-4 per day. The entire capsule can be inserted vaginally (inserted just before bed, it will dissolve before the first time you wake to use the bathroom), or you can use the oil on your fingers for your perineal massage, then also rub on your cervix (assuming you can reach it). Applying directly to the cervix is optimal, but the beneficial ingredients are absorbed through the external skin or the stomach also.

Q: Are there any precautions needed when using EPO vaginally?
A: Yes. Always wash your hands (including under your fingernails) before inserting anything into your vagina. Never insert EPO once you have lost your mucus plug (show).

General Questions About Both
Q: Can you take RLT and EPO simultaneously?
A: Yes. Many women start with RLT at week 32, then add EPO to their daily regement at 34 weeks.


Like with anything you read here, always speak with your midwife before you start any herbal treatments, and make your own decisions based on what you feel is best. I am not a medical or herbal specialist - only someone who has gathered information based on what I have read.

Sources:
Raspberry Leaf Tea in Pregnancy - Raspberry Leaf Tea & Tablets for Labour...
http://www.maternitycorner.com/mcmag.../preg0007.html
http://www.birthingnaturally.net/cn/.../primrose.html
http://www.pregnancy.com.au/resource...rry-leaf.shtml
http://www.babycentre.co.uk/pregnanc...elabourexpert/
 
This is fab thanks hun :)

Started "inserting" last night! It's funny how sites are different - two of my apps tells me I'm full term now! Xxx
 
Ooh glad I didn't do the RLT if you're not supposed to take it with endometriosis!!
 
This is fab thanks hun :)

Started "inserting" last night! It's funny how sites are different - two of my apps tells me I'm full term now! Xxx

Yea and that post says full term is 36 weeks too...
It also says to start EPO at 34 weeks.. Whereas most sites advised not starting til full term, being 37 weeks... So I might start mine tomoro (36 weeks)
 
Yea and that post says full term is 36 weeks too...
It also says to start EPO at 34 weeks.. Whereas most sites advised not starting til full term, being 37 weeks... So I might start mine tomoro (36 weeks)

Go for it hun :) I know everyone's different but I've been taking it for a week and all is ok here. Obviously I don't know if it's doing anything but they say you need a lot in your system for it to work xx
 
Yea I think I will.. I'll 1 tab per day for a week.. Then 1 of the 1300mg for a week.. Then I'll go 2 1000mg for a week then 2 1300mg for a week.. Build it up slowly...

Feel like I've a brick laying in behind my pubic bone today... Quite uncomfortable!!!
 
Okay ladies could you reel some boys names off please to help give me some idea! We've a Jacob Andrew already. Rob doesn't like Noah. Riley, Aiden or names like Hayden Jayden.... Think this is going to be HARD!! Lol x
 
Anyone else pretty much always hungry in early pregnancy? I'm coming up to 8 weeks and I feel hungry all the time, not good I'm trying hard to stick to sw but it feels impossible and I feel bloated already :/
 
Okay ladies could you reel some boys names off please to help give me some idea! We've a Jacob Andrew already. Rob doesn't like Noah. Riley, Aiden or names like Hayden Jayden.... Think this is going to be HARD!! Lol x

Alex, Zachary, Albie, Joshua, Bradley, Jack, Harry, Joseph, Logan, Louie, Harvey, Harley, tommy, Frankie, Ashley
Random names that I thought of lol x
 
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