¡¡ʎǝuɹnoɾ s,ǝpuolqǝǝzʇıp - same old, same old!

[Curlz]

Afternoon linz..
Hope yer ok chuck,sorry for being awol have a good evening xx

 

[cherl889]

I really dont think id care if any of the service said that. They are not friends and not all of them watch it.

 

[LVLLM]

lol - no friends at all? it would bother me more friends seeing than strangers i think

 

[cherl889]

Exactly. Friends will be a constant reminder if a stranger said anything id just say to them "have you seen yourself lately, at leat i know i look good naked!"

 

[LVLLM]

LOL love it. Not sure you need Gok Cheryl!

 

[cherl889]

Oh i do hun to teach me to love it! I can talk the talk when needed but cant actually walk the walk myself!

 

[LVLLM]

me neither!

 

[ditzeeblonde]

It'll happen Linz, it did to me it took M&S to do it, walking towards the escalator I saw this thin bloke walking towards me, I suddenly realised it was a mirror and the bloke was me. You see at home and situations like that, you see what you expect to see, the thing in M&S was an out of context event, so I didn't see myself the way I normally did.

Thanks Jim... looks like I'll have to make a trip to M&S then!!

Ahh babe. You are very welcome and you have been there for all of us in the same way. I just need to find my mojo again and we'lll all be one mini happy family!

One very dysfuctional family!

Well i think you are both very amazing people to have change your lives around they way you have, xxx

Bless you thanks C. x

Here Here Cheryl. thats exactly what you need Linz - to be in a shop and wonder who that person is ( know mine on much lesser extent but I did the same in a home shop near the mirrors the others day - thought oh she has got a nice pair of legs in those jeans (its was me) - wasnt sure about the muffin top though lol!)

Im unsure if we women will ever feel we are thin when we are. My mum said she was looking at pics of her years ago and she looked lovely and thin but she always thought she was fat then. She basically summed it up when she said we will always think like that!

Just take a look at your clothes labels and how much better rings fit etc. that shows what you have done x p.s. have your boobaloobs sts lol?

I guess we'll never be happy but I'd quite like to be fairly satisfied with how I look tho!

My boobs have hardly shrunk! They've dropped a bit but not shrunk... I'm guessing the dropping is coz they've not got anything to rest on now!

Ive always felt like this. No matter what size ive been always thought i was fat and wanted to be skinner!

Maybe its just how we're programmed!

Me too - dreadful isn't it that we have such a poor image of ourselves! I haven't had a pic taken willingly for years.

I think we need lessons on how to accept compliments - this is the latest theory of my best mate She says we're taught to be self affacing and brush compliments off, and that's part of the problem with poor body image, when we look at ourselves we don't see our good features...she's a size 8, btw....

Susie

Thats very true, us woman are always dodging compliments, saying about our clothes, oh this old thing or that was only £2 from primark... we very rarely tend to say thank you & then stay quiet!

me too!
although not the fat photo of me ive just found! ive lost nearly 3 stone since last xmas. (my wi on 1st jan wasnt my heaviest!). i look down at my legs and all i see is huge sausages

I told you - we need gokking

Thats amazing V... well done! You must feel amazing. xx

I want Gok!

Oh yes please!

me too. but not on the telly.

Amen to that sister!

Im actually past caring, I dont mind the tv if they want a total eclipse on the screen when i drop the robe!!!

Your a little dot misses!

ha ha Cheryl. I doubt it though. Nah id be mega paranoid i think. esp with all the trolls that work on our shop floor saying omg did you see vicky last night LOL (ive already heard some of the comments they have made )

but still might be what i needed?

That would be my worst fear... everyone talking about me... I'm paranoid enough as it is!

Afternoon linz..
Hope yer ok chuck,sorry for being awol have a good evening xx

Hey gawjuss hope yr ok. xxx

Exactly. Friends will be a constant reminder if a stranger said anything id just say to them "have you seen yourself lately, at least i know i look good naked!"

Thats a fab attitude

LOL love it. Not sure you need Gok Cheryl!

She could be a female Gok!

Oh i do hun to teach me to love it! I can talk the talk when needed but cant actually walk the walk myself!

Oh yes... how many of us are like that! xx

 

[clarri]

Linz,
6 pages of catch up, but apart from the moose knuckle (which Im to scared to look at while Im still in work, so have written it on the back of my hand to remind me to look at home!!), Im sorry Ive skipped through to here!
Hope you are having a good day and not too busy, or knackered.
Hugs. xx

 

[ditzeeblonde]

Trust you Clarri... of all the bits to see!! Be scared... be very scared.. it is hilarious tho!!

Good to have you back babes... will be checking out yr pictures later, although yr journal entry made me feel like I was there with you!

Only feeling knackered coz I think my flu jab has kicked in... very achey & have a sore throat!

 

[LVLLM]

Oh No Linz - do you always get poorly with the jab? how come you have to have it?

I think we will all just have to accept that we are skinny, amazing and wonderful people

 

[ditzeeblonde]

I have it b'coz I'm on the diabetic register, its the first time I've had one... (well I have had one before when my ex was in the isolation ward in hospital with cancer but don't remember feeling this rank after it!)

I so hope that we can all meet up next year... it would be fab!

 

[cherl889]

Re: ¡¡ʎǝuɹnoɾ s,ǝpuolqǝǝzʇıp - kerrrr nackered!!

Hey all. I like the idea of being a female gok lol gok and bert!
Great to see you clarri
I'm sat in a service station waiting for mark to swap cars (and Oliver) and go to work, managed to get you on my phone....... Good or what

 

[ditzeeblonde]

Cheryl is Gokbert its official!

Thats pretty cool that we can travel around with you. x

 

[cherl889]

Re: ¡¡ʎǝuɹnoɾ s,ǝpuolqǝǝzʇıp - kerrrr nackered!!

YES to a meet up
Linz I am always made to have it done and every year I end up in hospital with my asthma. Last year I didnt but I never had the flu jab so there is no way I'm having one this year.

 

[ditzeeblonde]

My arm is still really tender & aching it was Thurs I had it done.. I never expected to feel so lousy or get a sore throat, think I'd rather have a few days in bed with the flu at least I'd have an excuse for it then! xx

 

[LVLLM]

Gokbert!!!! seriously if we did meet up we would choose outfits for each other that we think would suit. what a great idea
Linz hope you feel better soon x

 

[ditzeeblonde]

First a day of shopping being personal shoppers for each other, then a stop off for a little drinkies before returning to hotel for a chance to get dolled out before a night out on the tiles! Anyone free saturday??

 

[LVLLM]

i am actually

 

[ladyfelsham]

I'd love to but can't ((

So demand pics instead

Sx