foster son has gone into temporary residential care :cry:
i really didnt want it to ever come to this but eventually i had to consider the destruction that he was causing to my kids and my baby grandson.
im very disappointed that it didnt work out. he was here for almost 10 months. with all his flaws i will still miss him terribly and i will always care for him dearly.
we have been talking and have decided that once we are settled in the new house ( maybe after a few months settling period) we are going to apply to do fostering properly. obviously we are now going to have a spare room
and i would hate for it to go to waste. maybe short stay or children slightly younger than 15 would be better for us. he came to us with far too many problems that we just werent equipped to deal with and quite frankly his social worker was a waste of time , visiting only when she could be bothered and in the 10 months he was here she had promised to take him out with his sister so they could keep contact and she took them out....... NEVER. he never saw his sister all the time he was here, or his mother but that was to be expected due to the history of their relationship.
on the diet front i have pretty much stayed on plan although i had a blip on saturday and sunday when i had 62 syns instead of my alloted 30
thanks to some chocolate raisins.lol
also i havent been having my b choices. im so scared of having high fibre food because it makes my IBS so bad. my IBS is the reason i have had agoraphobic issues for a long long time ( long story ) but i dont want it to get worse with high fibre intake so i have been avoiding the breads, cereals etc that make up the b choice each day.
it may have affected my weightloss... i will soon find out huh.