A long ramble this week...
I have lost almost 3 stone (42lbs) in 4 months. Each week has been pretty good steady steps, not huge steps but small and steady. SO I was quite pleased with myself and proud. Yes I said was...
How can it take strangers who know nothing about me to wipe it all away.
Sunday we went to the chippie, one thing a friend wanted was cod and chips. I got chicken doner kebab, and just ate the chicken and salad. So I didn't buy anything bad, kept within the diet and everything.
There were three guys outside the chippie, about 20 years old. One looked at me and then had to start making fun of my weight and his two friends laughing and they kept on and on all the time until they left.
Inside was three girls, about age 12-13. They had to keep making snide comments about me and giggling and repeatedly staring.
I get this every time I go out. I hate going anywhere. They didn't know that I had lost all that weight but that's the point, they didn't know. They don't know me. They have no right to judge, ridicule and hurt me.
It is fine everyone always saying just ignore them. I do ignore them but it still hurts. It still breaks me apart inside.
That day I did okay with my diet.
The next few days didn't. I didn't have binges, I didn't go out of control but I was hurting and I didn't follow Slimming World. I kept Syns to the normal amount for the week but I ate foods that I shouldn't have. That don't agree with me.
Now I am back to the sod them attitude again and back on track but it is easier when I don't have to go out and see people.
When I go for my walk I try to go where there aren't people about. I rarely ever go to the shops over the road because of the people that hang around over there. These are different shops to the ones previously mentioned. It happens everywhere, it doesn't matter where I go.
Even when I walk through town it happens. This isn't me being paranoid. I know when someone looks at me, then laughs and talks to their friend/s and then they all look at me and laugh. They continue to stare, talk quietly to each other and laugh.
I am tired of all this and it gets me down. I try not to let it. I try to act like I don't care.
To make up for not keeping to allowances/ free foods (hard to keep to when money and food is tight anyway) and Syns I thought well if I eat more, my allowances, then that is just piling more food on top of the Syns that I have just had. So I started going without breakfast. Would go most of the day hungry. Doing the worse thing possible. But no more from today, I hope. I spent some of the bill money on food so that should see us over for a few days and get myself back on track.
My walking remained strong and consistent though. I never ever completely give up on myself. My resolve is always there somewhere.
Today I weighed in at 19st 4lbs. I gained 1lb
I expected a gain, from last week's diet and from the chocolate this week but I did expect a bigger gain so all in all I am okay with this. It could have been a lot worse. I did expect it to be a bigger gain.
Quite a shock to find it just a 1lb gain.
Before weigh-in I was resolved to work hard and lose all that I had gained and I will but now it will just me more of a loss than losing what I had gained.