Hey Hun,
Yeah I'm SS'ing, although on days where I am exercising strenuously or have a family meal I'll SS+. just gives me the flexibility to have a life as well as losing weight.
Unfortunately he has been like it all his life I think. He's very self assured and confident, and purposefully or not tramples over everyone who's not!! He's very healthy, execiases to extreme and eats what he wants, and so is his partner, and the rest of the family pretty much, so he has no idea about the struggle with weight that some of us can have. That combined with his inability to stop his mouth saying things before he thinks how they'd affect others, makes for some uncomfortable moments, and upsets people!! Hey ho, can't choose your family!!!