Here it comes...
Lynne, you're doing well, whatever you may think or however you may feel about your efforts. Bottom line is they are efforts, imperfect they may be, but does that really matter?
I was getting really down in the dumps about the fact that in the last nearly 13 months since I signed up here and started Exante for the first time, I had actually only lost (due to xxxxxillion restarts) 9.5lb. Nine Point Five El Bee. (just had to add that

) How pathetic I felt for all the money spent on packs, for all the fretting and hard work and saying no to temptations.
But let's be brutally honest. If I hadn't taken that step last April, what are the chances of me being the same weight I was then? It's more likely that I would be 9lb or more heavier than I am now. Now which of the two options is the more self-destructive one? Surely, the path that led you to be a little lighter than last year was the right one to choose. Ok, I don't like the idea that at the current rate it would take me another decade to reach my goal weight but let's just be facetious and say that would be the outcome. So in ten year's time, in my early forties then, I'd finally weigh 8 stone. Would I say to the 40+ year old me, it wasn't worth the effort?
Oof, I think it's the sunburn talking but I got quite warm typing this
You know Lynne, every time I go off on a passionate rant about how important it is to appreciate your every move in the right direction, no matter how minute it may seem to you, I am actually giving myself a good telling off because I'm the biggest doubter and cynic. So I hope this will help you a little bit to say to yourself well done so far, and now you carry on from here. A pep talk and a bit of tough love hehe.