I'm so annoyed at hubby, I just walked out of mil's because lo was crying and frustrated, he was over tired he was nearly being sick he was so worked up, hubby couldn't settle him and he wanted me. so I kept him on the sofa he decided he wanted mil but I kept saying no not until you calm down etc then she came over and took him from me and took him to her chair even though I made it clear he wasn't moving. I was really angry and I wouldn't have been able to say anything without being rude to her when I'm wound up but knew the best thing was just to say nothing so it didn't get out of hand. I hubby to take me home twice, I wasn't rude I wasn't horrible I just said I'd had enough of lo's paddy's everyday because he's not having his nap and if he isn't going to settle him here we'll both go home (originally I just was going to leave hubby with lo there) and he told me to walk home. So I started to walk home then he picked me up a couple streets over (didn't get very far due to the fact I can hardly walk) One minute I'm being told I owe mil an apology for not staying, the next I'm being told she's saying she's allowed to see lo but not touch him! I'm fuming. There's too much going on at mo for me and hubby to be arguing but if he had just taken me home or backed me up there wouldn't have been any issues. but now this has turned into all about her, how she feels, how she's going to miss out, how it looks to her. Hubby's taken lo back over there now but I've totally had enough of being made to be the bad one all because I don't agree with being made to feel like I'm 'sharing custody' with my mil!
but it was nice and relaxing x
