Grrrr hubby stressing me out this morning. I gave him a small list of stuff I needed doing this morning before we go to my mother in laws, he doesn't mind a list he says he's rubbish at remembering unless I keep on at him but I don't like to keep asking him in case I seem like I'm nagging so I write it on a list otherwise I have this rule if I have to keep asking him I'll do it myself, then he complains I shouldn't be doing it as it's too heavy, hurts my spd etc.
So then he needs to go out and do stuff so I tell him I've got stuff to do, to which he replies I've been sat down doing nothing watching tv! (I know he doesn't mean it nasty he's literally just trying to say why haven't I done it then) so I explain I've done 2 lots of washing, bathroom, dishes and gave Jack his breakfast etc but I can't do the babies room until he does what I've asked him to do and that I'm not going anywhere for another 2 hours so why would I not take my time?. He says he only has a few things left to do and I've been sat on sofa so we're going round in circles he isn't grasping what I'm saying. He said I can do what I need to do while he's out and he'll pick me up after..........ok so now to do what I needed to do I've had to do what I asked him to do, which I shouldn't be doing so he'll come in and tell me off for doing it, then I'll ask him how he expected me to do what I needed to do, THEN the penny will drop! Why are men so complicated? And it wasn't even an arguement cos we don't really argue. Is it just me that has a bloke like this? If he was being a twat I'd just have a go at him but he genuinely just didn't get what I was saying lol so I gave up x