Unthoughtful people!

[laura4988]

Dear mr High almighty consultant......

How dare you send a letter to my GP referring to me as ''This morbidly obese women'' I HAVE A NAME you know. Don't you look past my size? Its not as if i was referred to you for something that has anything remotely to do with my weight. what business is it of yours that i am over weight you were supposed to be finding out if i am bleeding internally but all you could see was my size. Dont you know how upsetting it is to be refereed to as ''this morbidly obese women''? I could call you '' this alcoholic Dr (yes i could smell it on your breath) but i wouldn't because you might be offended.

Yes i am offended, very offended. Do you know how much i hate looking like this and how hard i try to change. Do you know that 6 years ago i was running marathons and was probably fitter than you will ever be. Do you know what it feels like to have your health taken away in a day and all hope of ever having it back again. Do you know what it feels like to loose the will to live and to fight just to get through the next day? Do you know what it takes to get your life back together so you are able to face the fact that you FAT but just maybe you can do something about it. Do you know what it feels like to have kids call you names and taunt you in the street and to have to fight the tears back.

You should know better, your supposed to be caring but you have made me a blubbering wreck. :cry:
Thanks for putting me back to where i was a year ago. THANKS A LOT alcoholic Dr.

Oh whats the point?:cry:

Big cuddles and hugs.
I know how s**t they can make you feel.
I went to see my gp about my knees and he basically told me the problem with them was because I was overweight and wouldnt even look at them. I wasn't that big at the time either and it turned out it was the tendons and had nothing to do with my weight.
Don't let them get you down. They are stupid horrible people who don't even deserve your tears being wasted on their unkind words.
Big cuddles again x

 

[Shirleen]

Oh and whistle blow on the Dr he could be operating on someone you love one day!

 

[WelshJojo]

Dear ar*e hole security manager,
You've known for months that I've been suffering from stress related insomnia, and that the 3 nights that I have to do each run kill me as it is! If you actually gave a stuff about your staff and did your job properly you'd know that this was the reason I had to take time off sick in July! You would know this if you'd bothered to do my return to work interview-which you didn't-and made one of the supervisors do it after I asked you for a third time!!!
You are also fully aware that said supervisor, who has been in charge of the rota for the past 6 months, has been doing her best to give me days where possible! She'd arranged for me to do all days and h/o ok'd this, but your best friend, who also happens to work here and be a supervisor, decided to think for you-as always-and suggest to you that you should take over the rota and go against all the staff requests, mine included and not allow me to do this without a note from my gp!! Imagine my disgust when I come back to work after three weeks holiday, to find the whole rota changed in your best friends favour-and the real Reason he got you to suggest I needed a note from the doc, was cos you'd promised him ALL days so he could do the doors at night-like he's always wanted! You've also gone against matt's request to do all nights, so he could spend time with his daughter, and Sion's availability sue to looking after his 3 children! You expect him to do 3 night shifts in a row, whilst looking after his kids during the day!
You don't care about any of us, you never have and you never will-except Tony-we'd love to know what hold he has over you! The only good thing is I'm going to be leaving soon, and you will be the last to know-but I don't care, you are one of the nastiest, most manipulative tossers I have ever had the displeasure of meeting, and I have no problems with screwing you over by leaving-just like you've done to us all along!
Also how on gods fine earth you ever managed to win a leadership award I'll NEVER know as you are not a manager or leader-you are just an old school doorman and bully!
Regards,
One of your pee'd off, over worked and underpaid monkeys-as you call us to our faces!!!!

http://www.minimins.com/slimming-world-weight-loss-diary/187905-jos-journey-infinity-beyond.html

 

[jelly bean 639]

I have a very good Gp fortunately, she knew me when i was slim and fit and when first got ill. She is great, But this man. he made me feel dirty and stupid from the first min i walked in. Im soooooo angry and emotional at the mo HOW DARE HE!!!!!!!!
IF it were a problem associated with my weight i might understand his tone, but even then GRRRRRRRRRR

I dont have the energy to complain, i will probably get a stupid man that deals with it anyway

Did i say im angry!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[speccyblue]

I have a very good Gp fortunately, she knew me when i was slim and fit and when first got ill. She is great, But this man. he made me feel dirty and stupid from the first min i walked in....

I think female Drs are much more sympathetic about the weight thing. Men can lose it quite easily whereas women have a bit more of a struggle. Some men have no idea how to deal with women, perhaps your new Dr is one of them.

 

[speccyblue]

Dear ar*e hole security manager,

At least you are leaving, he sounds like a right horror. Some jobs are bad enough without people like this. He won an award, hmmm, that says a lot about the award company!

 

[jelly bean 639]

You know what? I'm dam well gonna complain... No one should be made to feel like I do right now. No one... How dare he!!!!

 

[WelshJojo]

You know what? I'm dam well gonna complain... No one should be made to feel like I do right now. No one... How dare he!!!!

Too right! Huge hugs, sorry they made you feel like that xxx

http://www.minimins.com/slimming-world-weight-loss-diary/187905-jos-journey-infinity-beyond.html

 

[speccyblue]

You know what? I'm dam well gonna complain... No one should be made to feel like I do right now. No one... How dare he!!!!

Too right, you go! It sounds like he deserves it.

 

[tallsarah]

You know what? I'm dam well gonna complain... No one should be made to feel like I do right now. No one... How dare he!!!!

good for you, your worth more and you could help the next person who walks into his consulting room from having a horrible experience

 

[enteralterego]

Dear fellow commuters
When your waiting for the bus, It's quicker for us all if we have out passes or money in our hands, It saves making everyone in the rain whilst you route through your bags, pockets etc.

Dear Rail Engineers
Did you know I was visiting Manchester again for a gig this weekend? Is this why you have decided to do work at night and replace the trains with a bus, which will have endless people fighting to get (prob a few been sick) and takes twice as long to get home, Thanks very much!

 

[katty]

for the parents who stand and stare/roll eyes/tut and especially to the woman who attempts to tell my son off........do you REALLY have to be so obvious in your disapproval of my sons behavior, he is 3, he has issues with socialising and communicating and he is under many different proffessionals to help him, i do not have to justify my sons behavior to you, i deal with him when he is out of control, if you don't like what you see then bloody look away and mind your own business, it must be so lovely for you to have such perfect children but i love mine just the way they are!!!

sorry lol, i feel better for writing it down, so frustrating

 

[Tinytootz]

Dear woman-who-works-with-OH-who-I'm-not-overly-keen-on,

I know he tells you things that he perhaps shouldn't be sharing with you, but seriously, either keep your beak out of my business, or get some of the basic facts right before you send him my way spouting a load of tripe.

And, because I am a cow, do something with your hair, its not Halloween yet.

 

[Shirleen]

Dear woman-who-works-with-OH-who-I'm-not-overly-keen-on,

I know he tells you things that he perhaps shouldn't be sharing with you, but seriously, either keep your beak out of my business, or get some of the basic facts right before you send him my way spouting a load of tripe.

And, because I am a cow, do something with your hair, its not Halloween yet.

Oooh OH needs a slap too for oversharing!

PMPL @ the Halloween hair lol!

 

[Tinytootz]

Oh aye, I have had words with him. The problem is, I like hearing the gossip he tells me about them!

 

[HelsAngel]

Best. Thread. Ever.

Dear select few, lovely ladies at my SW group,

I like coming to group, I think it shows too as I'm always happy and bubbly and always join in. I love hearing about your wonderful recipes and amazing losses etc. and honestly I'm very supportive of you but please, when it's IT time and we're all discussing our losses/gains, please don't gloat about how you lost 5lbs yet still had takeaways, meals out, 25 bottles of wine, a whole bar of Galaxy, doughnuts, brie (that one hurts the most!) and goodness knows what else. I'm a slow loser and if I sniff a chocolate button I'll gain. Hearing about your Chicken Royal with Cheese or your whole, 12", stuffed crust, pepperoni pizza with garlic bread makes me want to hit you around the head with a stick of celery. Don't think I'm not carrying it in my handbag!!
Thanks then,
Hels

 

[jelly bean 639]

Here, here. Don't you just want to lynch them? Lil

 

[Carriegirl21]

Best. Thread. Ever.

Dear select few, lovely ladies at my SW group,

I like coming to group, I think it shows too as I'm always happy and bubbly and always join in. I love hearing about your wonderful recipes and amazing losses etc. and honestly I'm very supportive of you but please, when it's IT time and we're all discussing our losses/gains, please don't gloat about how you lost 5lbs yet still had takeaways, meals out, 25 bottles of wine, a whole bar of Galaxy, doughnuts, brie (that one hurts the most!) and goodness knows what else. I'm a slow loser and if I sniff a chocolate button I'll gain. Hearing about your Chicken Royal with Cheese or your whole, 12", stuffed crust, pepperoni pizza with garlic bread makes me want to hit you around the head with a stick of celery. Don't think I'm not carrying it in my handbag!!
Thanks then,
Hels

Ahahahaha! I love the idea of you carrying celery as a weapon!
Very unthoughful of them to gloat like that, all I can say is it will prolly catch up with them in the end!

CGx
Sent from my HTC Wildfire using MiniMins

 

[Shirleen]

Ahahahaha! I love the idea of you carrying celery as a weapon!
Very unthoughful of them to gloat like that, all I can say is it will prolly catch up with them in the end!

CGx
Sent from my HTC Wildfire using MiniMins

It's like that Pat Benatar song "stop using veg as a weapon"

 

[Shrimpy]

Dear Bosses on High,

It has been a week of firefighting, solving one problem after another and trying to stop it snowballing out of control. You cannot suddenly send me two emails after I have just found out I'm in charge of my dept til my boss comes back from maternity in JUNE who has left 2 weeks early and I wasnt READY, and expect me to "jump on this immediately" and respond to you with it solved tomorrow by 9am.

SERIOUSLY WTF!

Gahhhhh!

I am going to pretend I didn't read my email until tomorrow I think, as it was sent AFTER my working day had ended by about 4 hours!

I AM ENTITLED TO FREE TIME, aren't I?

/end rant.