Kittenkat - where do you live? I feel the need to bi@tch slap your ex into next week.
KittenKat said:Hehehe... that made me chuckle
I'm in the Bristol area.
Ok don't say all that but think it it'll make you laugh!
KittenKat said:Yep, it definitely made me chuckle!
Only tonight to cope with and then he's away until next week, by which time I'll have moved! Then I have the joys of being on my own every evening
Oh you'll love it after a while! I've been doing it for years as hubby works nights, but now the kids are older they interrupt my blessed solitude and it's horrible...as for Mr Shirleen on holiday... Let's just say my dentist won't be happy!!! Lol
Start a hobby that takes you out of an evening, a pub quiz night, book club, night class, some towns have evening walkers groups, don't let it get to you, it's a new adventure grab it!
KittenKat said:Pub quiz nights are the last thing I want to do - ex used to run our local one!!
Monday nights will be SW night, as I've decided to go to a new group and am going to stay for the whole of class just to give myself something to do. There are 2, one at 5pm and one at 7pm, just got to decide which one I want to go to. Also trying to press gang people here at work into cinema trips, etc.
In all honesty, the more I think about it, the weekends are going to be harder as my family and friends are all hundreds of miles away so I'll be on my own for weekends too
Sometimes I surpass myself in the ability to put my foot in it!!!!!
How about weekend rambling club or church, or mosque or temple (to be inclusive). Unmmm offer to do a storytelling at the library? Take up football, rugby.
I've run out of ideas...can you tell? Lol
Iignore me and my miserableness!
KittenKat said:I'm sure I'll be fine, just all very daunting at the moment and much as I don't like him very much right now, still can't get my head around my life without him in it.
Think I'm just having a 'bad' day today, ignore me and my miserableness!
KittenKat said:In all honesty, the more I think about it, the weekends are going to be harder as my family and friends are all hundreds of miles away so I'll be on my own for weekends too