angie-bum
Gold Member
What 7 people I barely know have said to me this week
It's a good job I have a sense of humour
'yeah, I didn't realise she was pregnant I just thought she'd eaten all the pies' (that's okay, just talk about me like I'm not standing right by you)
'You seem to have be pregnant for years (erh no, just the usual gestation period...7 months so far)
(when discussing with a colleague a future appointment just b4 mat leave)...'you mean you'll still be as big as a house by then' (er?)
(in a break during serious meeting) 'I had my first at 40, you'll be fine' (erm, I don't know you, I didn't say I wouldn't be fine & I'm not 40)
'how long have you got to go.... 11 weeks! really?! (like she thought it unlikely) are you sure your not having twins? ...your having a boy. No a girl?!' (she obviously didn't believe this either)
(after I'd rushed back from a hastily arranged nurse appointment, as Bp suddenly higher and found out had raging uti)- from receptionist...
'everything alright then? never mind you'll not be able to take another week off' (well no, i wasn't looking for time off I was just making sure that I didn't have anything that could risk baby or an early birth, like a high BP or a raging uti.....Jeeze! I do need to have weekly wee and bp checks from now on.
'it's a shame you lost all that weight, just to put it back on again...' (well thankyou, you didn't bother to say anything complimentary or even acknowledge it when I had lost the weight, you just thought you'd save up that glowing comment until now...)
Otherwise, it's been an okay week. My midwife is a bit fluffy and doesn't listen to me, but I have seen a fab nurse practitioner and health visitor this week so not everything has been odd.
It's a good job I have a sense of humour
'yeah, I didn't realise she was pregnant I just thought she'd eaten all the pies' (that's okay, just talk about me like I'm not standing right by you)
'You seem to have be pregnant for years (erh no, just the usual gestation period...7 months so far)
(when discussing with a colleague a future appointment just b4 mat leave)...'you mean you'll still be as big as a house by then' (er?)
(in a break during serious meeting) 'I had my first at 40, you'll be fine' (erm, I don't know you, I didn't say I wouldn't be fine & I'm not 40)
'how long have you got to go.... 11 weeks! really?! (like she thought it unlikely) are you sure your not having twins? ...your having a boy. No a girl?!' (she obviously didn't believe this either)
(after I'd rushed back from a hastily arranged nurse appointment, as Bp suddenly higher and found out had raging uti)- from receptionist...
'everything alright then? never mind you'll not be able to take another week off' (well no, i wasn't looking for time off I was just making sure that I didn't have anything that could risk baby or an early birth, like a high BP or a raging uti.....Jeeze! I do need to have weekly wee and bp checks from now on.
'it's a shame you lost all that weight, just to put it back on again...' (well thankyou, you didn't bother to say anything complimentary or even acknowledge it when I had lost the weight, you just thought you'd save up that glowing comment until now...)
Otherwise, it's been an okay week. My midwife is a bit fluffy and doesn't listen to me, but I have seen a fab nurse practitioner and health visitor this week so not everything has been odd.